I was reading this blog I recently found….thanks to my friend James, and besides liking/relating to the humor, I found this line particularly interesting;
Now I’m not one to be dramatic about slight pain - save for the creative cursing- so Husband had to pry it out of me.
I’m thinking to myself…hmmmm, I’m not dramatic about slight pain either…oh wait, yes I am!
Here’s my philosophy:
I don’t suffer in silence.
I don’t see the point of it. Why should you not only have to suffer, but also keep it bottled up? It just doesn’t make sense to me. If I’m miserable, then I’m going to let everyone else know about it. (more…)

Why is it that people lose themselves after they get married? What is it about marriage that makes people have identity issues or drive and ambition issues?
I’d love to sit in my pink tower, pointing my finger, and laughing at the hoi polloi wives who seem to be rudderless in the sea of coupldom, but I can’t because I’m pretty much rowing in a circle right next to them.
I’m a pretty strong willed person, driven, opinionated with definite ideas on what I’d like my future to look like, but now I seem to be faltering where I didn’t before. And it’s not my husband’s fault, so that leaves me only one person to blame….crap.
Let’s examine the evidence: (more…)